The Switcheroo

If we look way back in time, for a while women did not have a choice in a mate, they were simply chosen. A mans ability to provide outweighed his good looks, or even personal hygiene. Women had to play the role of being attractive in order for her to be protected and provided for. Finally they were given some abilities in some cultures to accept or reject a mans advances.

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What women used to find attractive in a male has changed over time. Once women were given the ability and rights to refuse a man, men had to work harder at being desirable. Some work harder than others, but let us not discount that different women have different tastes, what appeals to one, may not appeal to another.

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Rock Star, Doctor, or Athlete

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A guy can be as ugly as heck, and I am not saying that these guys are, just that a guy can be ugly, but if he is in a rock band there are thousands of women who will claim that he is the sexiest person on Earth. For some reason women, and especially girls are enchanted by people in the music industry, often to the point that they unrealistically see themselves trying to enter into a relationship with these people. Sure some girls do get the rock star, but there are more rocks in the world, than there are stars. I don't know what that means, it just sort of typed itself, and sounded good. In sort, girls, if you are really thinking that you are going to meet a rock start and he is going to ask you to marry him, think again.

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Doctors are another professionals often considered sexy. Either because they save lives, or in some cases, because they are viewed as good financial providers. Perhaps they are seen as being reliable, and honest. There is a strong stereotype of parents pushing their daughters to look for and marry a doctor.

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Some women love the idea of a sweaty man, just back from the game. A man who is driven by the need to compete, to win, or at least try to win. When you think of it, there are a multitude of jobs that men have that women find sexy. Heck there are some women who find prisoners

Every Girl's Crazy about a Sharply Dressed Man

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Clothes catch a girls eye, they get her attention, either they draw her in or turn her off. Sometimes a man who dresses brightly and boldly will signal to a woman that he is strong and confident, other times it will signal to her that he simply does not know how to dress.

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A well put together man, be it in a suit and tie, or even goth extremes, will be more attractive to a woman. Well, maybe not so, to be fair there are a lot of women who adore a man who looks like he has been lost in the jungle for a week. I think I am seeing a pattern, and the pattern is that women don't really have one thing above any others that makes them think a man is sexy.

What does she See?

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Some women look at a mans chest, they like the six pack, others look for a teddy bear, others love the Ziggy Stardust look, that being stick man thin and slightly effeminate. Every woman is entirely different, where as most men can all be lumped into a similar pot, womens tastes are far more diverse.

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Although some women are attracted to a males body, often the thing that most attracts her is the mans smile, eyes, or good sense of humor. They look at the mans body, but that is not what is most important to her when deciding if he is attractive or sexy to her.

It's all in your Head

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Yes it seems to me that women have a more diverse way of looking at men and thinking about what is sexy and what is not, maybe it is because they think a bit more logically than men do, looking for a mate or a provider. Maybe it is because for generations they were not allowed to have any choice in the matter, that we have produced women who think along more varied lines than men do.

It has been said that women fall in love with a man and find him more and more sexy as the time goes by, where as men are simply drawn to sexy women, and fall in love later.
As such what a woman finds sexy is all in her head.

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Women from all over the world are no different from each other.  They want love and romance. 

Here are some methods on how to woo a woman properly:

1. On the first meeting don’t be too fresh.
   

   Sometimes being too self-confident is perceived as being arrogant.  You maybe the best-looking man in the face of the earth but if you act like one, this is a major turn off for women.  Arrogant men are not well liked - even as friends - much more as lovers.

2. Be a gentleman.
   

    Contrary to popular belief, women still want to be “pampered” and be treated like a “Queen”.  Opening doors and pulling a chair for her is never outdated. It shows you consider her special enough to treat her good.

3. Be thoughtful and expressive of your feelings. 

   It’s true that action speaks louder than words but saying “I love you”, is still the best way to show how much you love her.  Spoken words, coupled with loving actions are explosive combinations, almost always the woman will “listen”.

4. Little things mean a lot. 

   Those letters or notes tucked into her book; those red roses given even when there are no special occasions; those e-cards saying how much you love her, are small little things that can melt a woman’s heart. 

5. Make time for her family, especially her mom and dad. 

   Be truly interested in her family.  When you “love” her family, it shows you care for those she cares about and that would give you additional points in her heart. 

6. Never forget any important dates, like her birthday, her graduation day, etc. 

   This may seem trivial but I heard women being touched by a man’s remembrance of their birthdays and graduation days.

7. Listen when she speaks. 

   Women (and even men, for that matter) want men to listen when they say something.  It shows that you care about her thoughts, concepts and beliefs and that you are not one insensitive person.

These are not phenomenal and uncommon methods, but at times we need to be reminded that the simple, little things that we oftentimes ignore are the ones that are actually very significant. 

So keep these seven methods in mind and be successful in wooing the woman of your dreams!

Jason Bourne is resourceful, driven and intimidating. He doesn't have the same air of glamor about him as James Bond. He's not traveling the world in expensive cars with fancy gadgets and bedding beautiful women. He's not out there to save the world. Bourne wants to find out who he is.

A lot can be said about Bourne. But what stands out most about the character is his confidence.

There are many guides for men which say you should fake your confidence. Have confident body language. Fake it till you make it. It doesn't work that way. You may look confident, you may even feel confident for a while, but if you're faking it, you will crumble as soon as you're under pressure. The only way to acquire true confidence is to earn it. Here's the Jason Bourne way.

Physical Appearance

Confidence, by definition, is a state of mind. Physical appearance is not the most important thing, but it does play a role.

Bourne wears very simple clothing. It's not a custom tailored thousand dollar dinner jacket, but he doesn't need it. He wears clothes that he needs to wear. Thick sweater, wool topcoat, boots, clothes that keep him warm and don't stand out.

Bourne's clothes are almost exclusively black. According to an Msnbc.com article “studies have found that people in black uniforms (like sports teams) are viewed as more dominant figures .”

But more than that, wearing a simple(that doesn't mean it can't be stylish) outfit ensures that you won't have to worry about small details, and whether they look good or not.

Jason Bourne way: Simplify your wardrobe. Minimize your use of unnecessary clothing and items.

Close Combat

There is a good chance that you will go through your entire adult life without being in a fist fight.

You don't have to be an expert in krav maga. You don't have to be able to punch through ten bricks. You don't even have to actually defeat someone in a fist fight. As I've stated at the beginning, there's a good chance you will never have the chance. It's simply knowing that you have the training to handle yourself in a conflict that breeds confidence.

The training can be as little as hitting the heavy bag regularly. It doesn't need to be fighting related. It can come from lifting weights. But being fit and strong creates genuine confidence, one that can be backed by action.

Jason Bourne way: Get yourself a heavy bag, sign up for a martial art of your choice or lift weights.

Get Smart

“I can tell you the license plate numbers of all six cars outside. I can tell you that our waitress is left-handed and the guy sitting up at the counter weighs two hundred fifteen pounds and knows how to handle himself. I know the best place to look for a gun is the cab of the gray truck outside, and at this altitude, I can run flat out for a half mile before my hands start shaking.”

Throughout the series Bourne demonstrates a vast array of knowledge. He is quick thinking, has a great tactical awareness and speaks several languages. All this is crucial to his performance as a spy.

You too should become an expert. Being the go-to guy in a particular field is a powerful confidence booster.

We all have passions, interests and jobs. Don't just settle for mediocrity. Develop your knowledge of the area. Yes, it does take a lot effort and time but the rewards for being an expert, whether you're recognized internationally or just in your neighborhood, are well worth it.

Jason Bourne way: Learn things as if you're life depended on that knowledge. You need to be able to recall them instantly at any time.

Discover your identity

You need to have a purpose in life. Jason Bourne wants to learn about his past. You too should have a goal to devote yourself to. It can be making a certain salary. It can be visiting every continent. It could also be becoming the President, the strongest man in the world or the first man on mars. Why not? It is all in your hands.

Knowing exactly what it is you want out of life is such confidence booster that people around can feel it. Being a man who knows what he's doing is something that gives you an almost visible aura.

There will be assassins on your path, metaphorically speaking but you must learn to overcome them. The good news is, each one that you do overcome gives you more confidence to overcome the next one.

Jason Bourne way: You should be as ruthless as Bourne in the pursuit of your dream. I don't mean killing everyone who stands in your way. I mean relentlessly working towards it, one step at a time, until you finally reach what you want.

We women have been manipulating men for decades because we know it works! I am going to let out the secret to how we do it! The reason for this is because I am now married and have learned that manipulating actually ruins your relationship! If there are women reading this, I hope that you realize how wrong manipulation actually is!

1. Telling men what they want to hear

    Believe it or not we know exactly what men want to hear, what they like to hear, and what will make them give in! For example: if I want to go shopping, but we really don't have the money or my husband doesn't want to watch the kids I simply say that I need something or say that if he lets me do this then I will let him do what he wants to do. However when it comes time for him to go do that something then I find someway to argue with him until he gives up and once again I get my way on 2 separate occasions!

2. Sex

   Obviously (at least obvious enough to me) men know that women use sex to manipulate them! Most guys will do anything for sex. There are more ways than actually having sex to manipulate though. All we women really have to do is dress in a sexy way and men bend over and kiss our feet. Guys if you want a tip to stop being manipulated in this manner quit thinking with what's below!

3. Whining

   We also know that if we whine about something long enough men will eventually give in so that they don't have to listen to us whine anymore. Men- take a stand. My husband just ignores me, so after being ignored so long I stop whining and deal with the fact that the answer is no!

4. Guilt

   If you have ever done anything that makes you feel guilty and your wife/girlfriend knows about it she will use it over and over again to get her way! The only way to stop this is to realize that whatever you did wrong if you both decided to get over it and make the relationship work then you shouldn't feel guilty anymore. Learn to forgive yourself and remind her that she forgave you for that. Don't give in!

5. Head Games

   Women are masters at head games. We can think up things that we don't even mean just to mess with you! We are pretty amazing if you really think about it! I mean if we don't like something that you do we can talk you out of whatever it is and make it so that you never do it again without even knowing that's what happened! The only way to spot this is if your woman is trying to get you to stop doing something you love and starts rambling on about all these reasons you shouldn't do it this is what she is doing. I have learned this one the hard way. I used to try to do this to my husband, and it worked, however now that he doesn't do anything anymore he is at home to drive me crazy and he is going crazy because he doesn't have anything to do… so this actually works better if we girls steer clear of trying to manipulate and control our men in this way!

Those are the main ways women manipulate and control the men in our life. My advice is to stop manipulating, in the end it only makes things worse. Also for the men out there, take a stand! Don't give in to your women manipulating you, eventually after not giving in for so long she will give up and stop manipulating you!

1. Lean Meats and Fish
   
   

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   Eat a diet rich in lean meats like fish and chicken. These foods are high in protein which men do need to attain potency. Also a lean diet will promote belly weight loss, which in itself will increase the sex drive. If you look better, then you will feel better.

2. Chocolate
   
   

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   Dark chocolate is another food that is easy to find and sets the mood for love in males. So men, make sure to hit the chocolate shops and don't just buy the dark candy for your girlfriend. Make sure you save some of it for yourself. Then dim the lights and get set for a little romance.

3. Alcohol, Red Wine
   
   

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   Alcohol in small amounts can get you feeling loose and ready for passion. A glass or two of wine is also good for your heart as well. We all know that overdoing the alcohol has the opposite effect in terms of sexual drive and arousal. So, drink the booze in moderation and let go of your inhibitions naturally.

4. Avocados
   
   

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   The avocado has a naturally sensuous shape, but it is loaded with all kinds of wonderful oils and vitamins that promote good sexual health in men. Natives of the Caribbean used avocados as an antibiotic to cure infections. In this same way avocados are believed to increase the male libido and rid it of toxins.

5. Pumpkin Seeds
   
   

   
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   Pumpkin seeds are said to promote a healthy prostate. Pumpkin seeds are high in carotenoids which studies have shown help minimize the risk of getting prostate cancer. Zinc is also another mineral which helps keep a male's critical areas functioning properly.

6. Chili Peppers
   
   

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   Red hot chili peppers as in the vegetable and not the band, also are believed to be helpful in promoting sexual drive in males. They are high in Vitamin C and Vitamin A as well. Athletes in South American countries sometimes eat chili peppers before an important sporting competition as they promote stamina. We all know that stamina is critical in good intimacy, so eat those chili peppers and keep the heat going.

7. Figs
   
   

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   Figs have been eaten for thousands of years to promote good heart health. Today,researchers have found that figs do help maintain proper blood pressure and keep the blood flowing well throughout all areas of the male body

8. Bananas
   
   

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   Bananas besides having a phallic shape are also a fantastic fruit for men as they are bursting with potassium. Potassium aids the heart in pumping and the blood in flowing. Doctors believe that bananas may be the perfect fruit and aiding the sex drive in men is just one reason. No wonder monkeys love them.

9. Oysters

   

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   Oysters are more popular in America than any other country and they too aid in a man's sexual health. Oysters are packed with Vitamins A, B, B-2 and C. They are also rich in iron and phosphorous. Oysters were believed to have great aphrodisiac power in ancient times. Roman emperors were known to have oysters available to help their sexual prowess. One emperor would eat 50 oysters at one sitting!

10. Almonds
    
    

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    Almonds are a naturally great food for your heart and aid in maintaining proper blood pressure. Your male heart will love all the nutrition it finds in almonds. Almonds help your heart do its job of pumping blood and maintaining circulation to all parts of your male body.

These are ten of the best foods for maintaining lasting intimate relations with no prescription needed and no side effects. What pharmaceutical company can guarantee that?

1. Just because a woman is friendly does not mean that she fancies you

   Why is it men assume that a woman fancies them if she get on well with them? There is a big difference between flirting and being friendly. When a woman is flirting, you will know about it. If she is asking about work, sports or discussing your weekend with your family, it isn't flirting. Flirting is asking leading questions, batting the eyelids or making ambiguous, slightly naughty statements. Know the difference and you'll avoid having your advances turned down.

2. Just because a woman flirts does not mean she will spend the night

   After catching a girl's eye in the bar and flirting, how many of you men turn to your mates and go “I'm going to get lucky tonight.”? Wrong. Let me reiterate, girls just want to have fun. Flirting is fun. Women like to feel special and flirting with a hot guy does this for them. Sometimes you may strike it lucky but don't expect it all the time. She will let you know if she is keen. So instead instantly expecting a night of passion from the minute you buy her a drink, enjoy the flirting and company. Who knows, you may be pleasantly surprised.

3. We don't want to spend the rest of our life with you after one date
   

   A date is just a date. Why does a man assume that if a woman is looking for a serious commitment when she agrees to go out on a date with him? Maybe in the 1950's women were on the look out for potential husband material, but this is the twenty-first century. Girls just want to have fun and meet new people. If the right guy comes along - great, but seriously when you go out a couple of times don't stress about it. She is not necessarily after a husband, a house and babies. Just enjoy your time together.

4. Women are not possessions or trophies

   Why is it that men always show off their new girlfriends to their mates like a trophy, as if they have won something? This is one of my pet hates. Women are not possessions, or accolades denoting your achievement. A woman is with you because she likes you as a person. When you start strutting around like the cat that got the cream, it is a big turn off. Women do not like to be treated as objects, so if you want to keep her remember to treat her with respect and as you would a beloved family member.

5. When it is over, it is over, Stop trying to win us back

   Why can't men handle rejection? Sometimes relationships end. There doesn't need to be a dramatic event that causes it, sometimes a woman just loses the attraction she once had for you. Let it go. Don't bombard her with phone calls, text messages and email - she is not coming back to you. Move on with your life and don't aggravate an already painful situation.

So men, my final word of advice is treat women with respect. Listen to them and read the signs carefully. If the woman you are interested in likes you, she will let you know. If you do end up together, treat her as a partner and as a friend. If it doesn't last, it wasn't meant to be. Just let it go. Good luck and happy dating.

Now have a seat and make yourself comfortable. In the next few minutes, I am going to share with you certain truths about dating and rejection that I think you need to know. And if you follow the simple advice I am laying down in front you, it will transform your life.

So please pay close attention...

If you dream of becoming successful with women, you will need to learn how to quickly and effectively handle rejection. Yes, handling rejection is a skill you can learn. Being rejected by a woman will always be a certain probability. And learning to handle the inevitable rejection will prove to be the most valuable skill you will ever learn.

And, if you learn it well and become skilled at handling rejection from a woman, you may even be tempted to include it in your resume. It's your call.

But by comparison, your Masters degree on this…and your PhD's on that…won't even come close to the power and confidence your new learned skill will give you.

Now let's get down to it. When it comes to learning how to handle rejection from women, what you first need to do is erase the DGLS off your personality. What's DGLS? It's a term I coined and it stands for "Date Game Loser Syndrome."

Translated into plain English it means: Fear of date rejection spurred on by a self-induced inferiority complex.

This may or may not be applicable to you. But the truth is; when it comes to approaching women some men need to BUILD themselves from the ground up.

You see, the date-hunting fiction popularized by the pulp media, pulp magazines and pulp TV shows cause many men to feel inferior and derisory of themselves.

Furthermore, many men believe or have been made to believe that to approach a woman and ask her out on date they first need to perform unbelievable, gravity defying feats.

Metaphorically speaking, some men go as far as walk on eggs, dance on barbed wire and recite the entire constitution just to get a date with a woman

But that doesn't do anything for your confidence with women and doesn't always meet YOUR BODY primordial needs.

And believe me, no woman is worthy of that much self-denigration and sacrifice from a man…not at first anyway.

In fact, since women outnumber men by 3 to 1 on the face of the earth, you've got a lot to choose from. Thus, it's the woman who needs to first prove that she is worthy of such grandiose effort from a man.

What's abominable however, in some cultures, men have become totally emasculated. So emasculated that when it's time to approach and talk to a woman, these men will fumble the ball …literally.

In countries like Sweden for example; in an attempt to make boys feel equal to girls and vice versa, some pre-schools encourage the boys to play with dolls. You go figure.

Of course, there are possible positive points to this approach like, thwarting future sex discrimination against women and so on.

But their true agenda goes beyond just protecting a Woman's Rights. Rather, it's designed to meet the expediency of phonically motivated; politically correct battles for sexual equality.

But for what I know only sea horses can - of all male species - get pregnant. That's the closest example of male and female being equal.

Physically and psychologically - at least last time I checked, women were still from Venus and men from Mars.

Thus, what we need are social experimentalists and feminists who will invest the valuable tax-payers resources and energy in teaching boys and girls to respect each other's individual rights.

Beyond that, the pseudo-educators must allow kids to grow according to the physical and psychological makeup of their gender. Instead of trying to have children morph into something they weren't born to be.

But we will get into that in another article. For now let's get back to dating and rejection.

In the number one rated "Build Your Body for Life, Sex and Love," a ($ 20.99, 396-page paperback, Authorhouse, 1663 Liberty, Suite 200Bloomington, IN 47403) fully pictured new book, on health, fitness and rewarding relationships) you will find that, to erase the Date Game Loser Syndrome you need to first start telling yourself the following:

“I am the best, perfect and ultimate choice a worthy woman can ever make on a man.”

Yep, that's right! If you are not able to repeat that short sentence to yourself and believe it, why shouldn't a woman reject you? In fact, she must. Do you catch my drift?

Understand this. A woman (if she isn't a lesbian, gay, bi or a militant feminist) wants a real man.

In her eyes, a real man is a man who is unrepentantly confident and is capable of exerting brazing personal power - regardless of your physical appearance or your economic and social circumstance.

So get back to your roots and start acting like one

But don't get me wrong. Being a real man is being different from the quintessential alpha male idiot. Alpha males (the types who like to push their weight around the room) may seem interesting at first, but they soon start looking more like bull frogs and inevitably lose their appeal.

While the real man, is the laid-back, cool and impossible to trap. He remains the ever so attractive Prince Charming who keeps his energy on building names of prospective dates in his phone book.

And here's the thing. A hot woman that is worthy of you is usually are after these "hard to trap" real man. When she get her hands on him she wants to keep him FOR LIFE. Naturally, to the' hard to trap' man a date is one phone call away.

(By the way; have you noticed that when it comes to dating most men seem go after every woman they can get. Whistle some women only go for men they can't? )

Moral…the harder you are to get the more they want to chase you.

But to rise to that stature in the eyes of a woman you need to take that little sentence to heart and repeat it 10 times a day for the next 21 days. After that period, if you feel no difference in your ability to approach a woman, you are chronically afflicted with DGLS.

You need emergency intervention…and fast.

And here's how you get it. You don't need to burn money on a shrink, join the War in Iraq, and swim with piranhas in the Amazon River or burn the American flag.

To disembarrass yourself from DGLS all you need to do is make sure you repeat tha little self-esteem building sentence 3000 times during the next six to twelve months.

Whoa…3000 times? Yes. Here's why.

Research shows that any action - physical or verbal - repeated that number of times will eventually becomes part of your nervous system. Once embedded into your nervous system it becomes a learned pattern of behavior that's transferable to your subconscious.

I guess you can clearly see my point here. Soon you will find yourself behaving in a supremely confident and evocative manner in front of a woman. Unknowingly, you will start sending out unconscious clues that make you extremely attractive to hot women everywhere.

Before you know it, your once sluggish SEX and LOVE life explodes beyond imagination.

Next, even though feminists, religionists, moralists, this ists…that ists will howl, puff and chew over this, I am going to give a few dating tips that can save you time, money, heartache and frustration.

Are you ready for this? Then listen closely and intently to some cardinals rules when going out date hunting.

• Rule Number One. If you are going to go out looking for a date be sure to focus only, and I mean ONLY on the hottest and fittest and best looking women you see.

Reason. Even though this approach may narrow your options, or brand you a superficial bastard, there are immeasurable benefits in doing so.

A) Beautiful and hot women are aware that they are beautiful and hot. Naturally, they want a man with the guts to perceptive that and take up on her challenge.

B) Beautiful and hot women are very likely to spend time caring for their health and their bodies. This is a good sign of self-respect.

C) A beautiful and hot woman is (provided she isn't a total wacko, egocentric, high maintenance, push over, self-consumed maniac) likely to inspire you to get in shape just to keep up.

She may also kick you between your pockets to encourage you to "Put Down the Chips" and get fit. That in it self may help you preserve your own health and extend the length and quality of your life as well. Massive, massive, massive benefits right there.

• Rule Number Two: Probably the biggest benefit in pursuing beautiful and hot women is to have a shift in perception of reality. In other words; if you're going to have to put up with mood swings, PMS, jealousy and monolithic financial bleeding, she might as well be worth the pain.
• Rule Three. Speaking of financial bleeding, remember this: Never, ever spend any money on a first date.

You heard me right! Many women are out to have a good time at your expense. And many men learned the hard way that in their futile hopes of scoring with women, they ended the night with bruised egos and empty wallets. Has this ever happened to you?

And, oh yes, let's not forget. Many predatory women love to run into thumb sucking morons that will finance their night out. Many such women, who prey on guys like you, do not necessarily see you as Prince Charming but rather a dumb, spineless, ball-less frog.

Yes, these Singles' bar mavens are predators on the prowl. They are out for a free meal and a good laugh at your silly expense. Give them the slightest change and they will come at you like the Otter (that cute, playful, fun and adorable freshwater carnivorous mammal having webbed and clawed feet and dark brown fur).

Very cute indeed! But the adorable, seemingly vulnerable Otter creature is slippery and impossibly hard to hold on to. Its favorite occupation is eating. It lurches the waters…in search of the Big Fish. And, as you may have seen on Nature Programs on TV; when the Otter catches its prey, it plays with the food before devouring it. It's cruel, cruel and cruel.

And you know? In the absence of Big Fish, the Otter is more than happy to go for frogs (like you) as its favorite snack.

To the Otter - which is a protected specie by the way - a frog is easy to catch and rich in calories.

So here's your new Law on Dating. You will consider spending money on a date only after you've spent some "meaningful time" together and you've been kissed into a Prince.

The math here is obvious. If she thinks you are not good enough to be intimate with; then why should you pay for her company? I call paying for or buying drinks for a date "Passive Prostitution."

Tough huh?

Well, you have to send out the right message: The message that you are not a desperate loner who can't even get a date with an IRS agent.

• Rule Number Four. If you're interested in a hot woman, let her know of your intentions immediately. Chances are, she will either find your honesty and your boldness attractive or she will tell you off right away.

Both ways, you will save time and/or free yourself up to purse even hotter women out there.

And trust me. Just when you think this hot thing is the most amazing woman you've ever seen, there in front you pops up another tantalizing, luscious volcano; ready for you to push her right buttons. Next, just when you thought that ultra-sexy volcano couldn't come any hotter, a nuclear blast walks in the room. That's being beauty of it.

Your job is to keep taking stock and spring into action when the opportunity presents itself. But, remember this important law of the dating game: “If you hesitate you self-alleviate.”

But until you get rid of DGLS, Date Game Loser Syndrome you are likely to continue being a thumb sucking moron of the dating world. Being a Don Loser instead of being a Don Juan.

Finally, dealing with a rejection from a woman is easier than spelling your own name. (I assume you find your name easy to spell.)

If you teach yourself to think of rejection as something that has little to do with you and more do with her inner demons; the rest is predictable.

For instance: The hottie may be unavailable. She may be having PMS. Maybe she has just broken up from a painful relationship and is trying to regroup. Perhaps she lost a loved one and is grieving. She may have lost her job and is worrying about just surviving. It's quite possible she has a low self-esteem or she's just shy. In the worst case, she could be she's gay, a closet lesbian and is not into man at all.

There are a zillion reasons a woman may say NO to you; and 99% of cases it has little to do with you.

Granted, if she rejects you there's one important factor that may come into play. That is, a single drop of a man's semen can fertilize every single woman in America. Just one single drop! And a man can impregnate a woman until late in his life.

A woman on the other hand, is bound by time limits, and has a narrow time-window time to conceive and bear a child.

Therefore, biologically, in her search for a potential mate a woman has to be choosy. It's her way of ensuring the successful surviving of her offspring.

For that, a woman wants to attract an individual of good genes. And being confident and being powerful send a signal that your genes are up to her standards.

This brings me to a final and very important point.

Rule Number Five. Regardless of how beautiful and hot a woman may seem to you, NEVER, NEVER, EVER put up with her disrespect or bad tolerate her bad behavior towards you. If you respect yourself, you won't.

If you approach a woman hoping for a date and she disrespect you or misbehave, you will - without being offensive and degrading - let her know exactly what you think of disrespectful and badly behaving women.

Do that and see how quickly your stature swells in her eyes.

If it doesn't, you shouldn't even consider getting physical with her. Take the rejection as sign that she doesn't respect herself…and as a red button telling you she could put your life at risk,

In Build Your Body for Life, Sex and Love, the book I just mentioned a minute ago, you will find a treasure chest of advice that will propel your dating success to the stratosphere.

Conclusion: Rejection from a woman is less stingie if you become aware of the reasons I've just laid out for you.

More importantly, knowing there are more women than there are men crawling around the face of the earth put us men at an extreme advantage and makes us easy winners of the dating game.

That alone will go a long way in helping you erase DGLS from your personality. You owe it to yourself to try.

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These are only some tips for men to get someone's attention. The effectiveness of these tips depend of the one our act. If we always try to get her attention and never give up, we can get her attention to us too. If we give up easily, we can lose her faster.

Remember, as a man, we must act first. We must start a conversation first. Do not try to make her angry, if she is angry; try some humor topic to make her smile again.