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Should Schools be Distributing Condoms?

Parents seem to be concerned with schools distributing condoms and what this message is sending our children. Should schools really be distributing condoms to our children and why?

First you need to ask yourself one question. What grades will be distributed to? Are we talking about giving condoms to kindergartners? I find that some parents may think it highly inappropriate, but I believe it opens a line of communication most likely unknown to parents of young children. I would rather talk to my child about condoms and what they are used for if they bring the subject up themselves. Young children are very curious and are sponges with information, they just soak it right up. They are unbiased and under less peer pressure at young ages. Broaching the subject with them early on before peer pressure, could lead to them making smarter choices when peer pressure is abundant.

Open lines of communication with school staff and parents can indicate whether there is a need for condoms. Regular student/guidance counselor visits should be present. Children should be able to confide in someone other than their parents and not be mad to feel badly about it. Keeping communication flowing can indicate to you personally whether or not your child is or has been thinking about sexual intercourse. Appreciate that your child feels they can talk to you honestly and not be intimidated or made to feel cast out for certain thoughts or doings. By establishing this type of relationship you can deter a significant amount of peer pressure.

Condoms can protect against pregnancy and kids nowadays are becoming pregnant at a younger age. If there were programs and resources available for these children we could lessen and even prevent a significant amount of these occurrences. Information is a detrimental part of giving a condom to anyone. If there were programs, resources and parent/teacher/student relationships implemented, distribution of condoms would be very beneficial in preventing a percentage of teen pregnancy, therefore lowering the occurrences of unplanned pregnancies and well as welfare cases and abortions.

Distributing condoms in school can be very beneficial if done intelligently and informatively. Establish a program that involves the community with school as well as relationships that consist of parents, staff and students and we could eventually see a drop in unplanned pregnancy and teen abortions. Parents need to let their kids know that knowing all you can about the uses and effectiveness of condoms should not make you feel ashamed and uncomfortable about having or purchasing them or even asking a trusted adult to supply them. For example, allowing the school to set up programs to reasonably distribute them to your child.

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Comments (10)
#1 by Dani, Aug 28, 2008
Hmm... Interesting. Well, it has its ups and downs, I think. If condoms are not distributed, it may lead to unprotected sex practices, HIV, unplanned pregnancy etc. But if condoms are distributed, it may start what would have been unintentional in the first place.
Good Article.
#2 by JadeLuv28, Aug 28, 2008
Just wanted to say thanx for the comment I appreciate others opinions on this issue.
#3 by mikki, Sep 8, 2008
i think that it is a totally rock on report thing. and i totally think that children should learn about comdoms at young ages.but what if you dont have a way to get conomds?
#4 by marie, Sep 8, 2008
i love you!!!!!!!! ur totally right on.
#5 by wtf, Sep 8, 2008
what is the matter with you!?!? why would you be telling youlg children about condom it will only make the think about sex earlier in life!!
#6 by sexy, Sep 8, 2008
SEX i love SEX!!!
#7 by JadeLuv28, Sep 8, 2008
sexy are you under 18 because you sound like it, as for the other comments thank you and for wtf young children are already thinking about sex, or don't you watch Maury??!!
#8 by Chris Stonecipher, Sep 11, 2008
In this day, we need to talk to our children at an early age. How early is too early, well I am not sure but like you said, we need to talk to our children before they are too embarrased to talk to their parents. When I was 10 years old, I thought girls had coddies (spelling). I had no interest in girls until 12-13 years old.
Another great article!
Chris
#9 by JadeLuv28, Sep 12, 2008
Yeah I thought boys has coodies until they were in like 6th grade, I was never interested in boys until I was like an 8th grader and I didn't lose my virginity until I graduated highschool. I think parents need to be more open with their kids.
#10 by adfsdfasdfasdfasdfa, Nov 20, 2008
sexy your retarded
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